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Freedom Five ($5)
Over 100+ youtube link library & 40+ easy to read note-form "how to lists", exploring quick tips for managing overwhelm, anxiety, and how to reclaim back your happiness.
Contents:
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1 Stop the panic!
2 How to manage Stress
3 Looking at problems from different perspectives
4 How to feel better
5 How to stay resilient during challenging times
6 How to embrace uncertainty
7 How to set up a daily routine to feel better
8 What does positive self-care look like/
9 How to develop patience
10 What are positive affirmations and how to use them
11 How to calm your mind and practice meditation
12 How to deal with life challenges
13 How to learn from mistakes
14 How to claim small wins in personal growth
15 How to stay motivated
16 How to do journal reflections
17 Sample prompts for journal reflections
18 How to get out of negative rut thinking
19 How to stay positive
20 How to deal with stressors you cannot control
21 How to know if you are making good decisions
22 How to be flexible around problem-solving and stress
23 How to stay out of drama and drama people
24 How to set boundaries
25 How to deal with someone who disrespects you
26 What to do when stress is troubling you
27 100 ways to reduce stress
28 Ways to practice gratitude
29 How to have satisfying relationships with others
30 Strategies for optimal mental health
31 What to do when someone is gossiping behind your back
32 How to manage annoying people
33 How to deal with frustration
34 How to manage anger
35 How to deal with sadness
36 How to deal with loneliness
37 What to do when you feel defeated
38 What to do when you are losing faith that things will get better
39 How to get motivation to complete goals
40 How to get more energy
41 How to make decisions
Twosome Twenty ($20)
With over one hundred easy to read note-form "how to lists" exploring tips for managing overwhelm in life while also dealing with relationship issues such as boundary-setting, communication, healing broken trust, and more...
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Contents:
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1 Stop the panic!
2 How to manage Stress
3 Looking at problems from different perspectives
4 How to feel better
5 How to stay resilient during challenging times
6 How to embrace uncertainty
7 How to set up a daily routine to feel better
8 What does positive self-care look like/
9 How to develop patience
10 What are positive affirmations and how to use them
11 How to calm your mind and practice meditation
12 How to deal with life challenges
13 How to learn from mistakes
14 How to claim small wins in personal growth
15 How to stay motivated
16 How to do journal reflections
17 Sample prompts for journal reflections
18 How to get out of negative rut thinking
19 How to stay positive
20 How to deal with stressors you cannot control
21 How to know if you are making good decisions
22 How to be flexible around problem-solving and stress
23 How to stay out of drama and drama people
24 How to set boundaries
25 How to deal with someone who disrespects you
26 What to do when stress is troubling you
27 100 ways to reduce stress
28 Ways to practice gratitude
29 How to have satisfying relationships with others
30 Strategies for optimal mental health
31 What to do when someone is gossiping behind your back
32 How to manage annoying people
33 How to deal with frustration
34 How to manage anger
35 How to deal with sadness
36 How to deal with loneliness
37 What to do when you feel defeated
38 What to do when you are losing faith that things will get better
39 How to get motivation to complete goals
40 How to get more energy
41 How to make decisions
42 How to sort out future goals
43 How to know if you are in love
44 How to decide if you should stay in a relationship
45 How to know if your partner is right for you
46 How to talk to your crush
47 How to start a new relationship
48 What to do when you get bored of your friends
49 How to know if your friend is a good friend or not
50 How to know if you can trust people
51 What to do when a friend shares your secrets with others
52 How to change your life for the better
53 How to restart again with personal growth
54 How to determine core values
55 Examples of core values
56 How to create a new start in life
57 How to reset
58 Motivational ways to keep on going
59 How to maintain a positive mindset
60 How to focus on the learning lessons that life gives you
61 How to respond and not react
62 How to have a higher quality of life
63 How to find purpose and meaning
64 How to deal with financial stress
65 How to start a new direction in relationships
66 How to start over in life
67 How to practice forgiveness
68 How to heal form betrayal
69 How to deal with change
70 How to lean into problems not yet resolved
71 How to break down problems and resolve them
72 How to make gains moving forward
73 How to deal with emotional pain
74 How to positive express your emotions
75 How to get negative emotions out of you in positive ways
76 Examples of turning negative thoughts into positive ones
77 Redirection and reframe negative thoughts
78 Healthy habits
79 How to eliminate toxic influences and people out of your life
80 How to keep up with positive changes in life
81 Signs of a healthy relationship
82 How to maintain mutual support in relationships
83 What to do when jealousy gets in the way of your relationship
84 How to communicate effectively in a relationship
85 How to stay calm during escalations in conflict
86 How to take a positive timeout during conflicts
87 Success with a timeout in conflict
88 How to know if you are with the right partner
89 How to fix a broken relationship
90 Healing from broken trust
91 What to do when your partner annoys you
92 How to stop repeating old patterns with your partner
93 How to effectively communicate in a relationship
94 What to do when a partner is sneaky and you don’t trust them
95 What to do when your partner is dismissing your feelings and gaslighting you
96 What to do when your partner promises to change
97 What to do when you have fallen out of love
98 What to do to stay in love
99 What to do when you and your partner do not like the same things
100 How to focus on solutions in relationship rebuilding
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Reset Ten ($10)
Over 100+ youtube link library & 50+ easy to read note-form "how to lists", exploring quick tips for managing overwhelm, anxiety, and how to reclaim back your happiness.
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Contents:
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1 Stop the panic!
2 How to manage Stress
3 Looking at problems from different perspectives
4 How to feel better
5 How to stay resilient during challenging times
6 How to embrace uncertainty
7 How to set up a daily routine to feel better
8 What does positive self-care look like/
9 How to develop patience
10 What are positive affirmations and how to use them
11 How to calm your mind and practice meditation
12 How to deal with life challenges
13 How to learn from mistakes
14 How to claim small wins in personal growth
15 How to stay motivated
16 How to do journal reflections
17 Sample prompts for journal reflections
18 How to get out of negative rut thinking
19 How to stay positive
20 How to deal with stressors you cannot control
21 How to know if you are making good decisions
22 How to be flexible around problem-solving and stress
23 How to stay out of drama and drama people
24 How to set boundaries
25 How to deal with someone who disrespects you
26 What to do when stress is troubling you
27 100 ways to reduce stress
28 Ways to practice gratitude
29 How to have satisfying relationships with others
30 Strategies for optimal mental health
31 What to do when someone is gossiping behind your back
32 How to manage annoying people
33 How to deal with frustration
34 How to manage anger
35 How to deal with sadness
36 How to deal with loneliness
37 What to do when you feel defeated
38 What to do when you are losing faith that things will get better
39 How to get motivation to complete goals
40 How to get more energy
41 How to make decisions
42 How to sort out future goals
43 How to know if you are in love
44 How to decide if you should stay in a relationship
45 How to know if your partner is right for you
46 How to talk to your crush
47 How to start a new relationship
48 What to do when you get bored of your friends
49 How to know if your friend is a good friend or not
50 How to know if you can trust people
Get Your Life Back From Stress ($40)
All of these programs in one with advanced life tips to support you not only personally, romantically, but also in the professional realm around work and job stress. Reclaim Your Life From Stress. *Over 100+ how-to lists. Includes 100 motivational videos from youtube & 100 memes to combat stress!
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Contents:
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1 Stop the panic!
2 How to manage Stress
3 Looking at problems from different perspectives
4 How to feel better
5 How to stay resilient during challenging times
6 How to embrace uncertainty
7 How to set up a daily routine to feel better
8 What does positive self-care look like/
9 How to develop patience
10 What are positive affirmations and how to use them
11 How to calm your mind and practice meditation
12 How to deal with life challenges
13 How to learn from mistakes
14 How to claim small wins in personal growth
15 How to stay motivated
16 How to do journal reflections
17 Sample prompts for journal reflections
18 How to get out of negative rut thinking
19 How to stay positive
20 How to deal with stressors you cannot control
21 How to know if you are making good decisions
22 How to be flexible around problem-solving and stress
23 How to stay out of drama and drama people
24 How to set boundaries
25 How to deal with someone who disrespects you
26 What to do when stress is troubling you
27 100 ways to reduce stress
28 Ways to practice gratitude
29 How to have satisfying relationships with others
30 Strategies for optimal mental health
31 What to do when someone is gossiping behind your back
32 How to manage annoying people
33 How to deal with frustration
34 How to manage anger
35 How to deal with sadness
36 How to deal with loneliness
37 What to do when you feel defeated
38 What to do when you are losing faith that things will get better
39 How to get motivation to complete goals
40 How to get more energy
41 How to make decisions
42 How to sort out future goals
43 How to know if you are in love
44 How to decide if you should stay in a relationship
45 How to know if your partner is right for you
46 How to talk to your crush
47 How to start a new relationship
48 What to do when you get bored of your friends
49 How to know if your friend is a good friend or not
50 How to know if you can trust people
51 What to do when a friend shares your secrets with others
52 How to change your life for the better
53 How to restart again with personal growth
54 How to determine core values
55 Examples of core values
56 How to create a new start in life
57 How to reset
58 Motivational ways to keep on going
59 How to maintain a positive mindset
60 How to focus on the learning lessons that life gives you
61 How to respond and not react
62 How to have a higher quality of life
63 How to find purpose and meaning
64 How to deal with financial stress
65 How to start a new direction in relationships
66 How to start over in life
67 How to practice forgiveness
68 How to heal form betrayal
69 How to deal with change
70 How to lean into problems not yet resolved
71 How to break down problems and resolve them
72 How to make gains moving forward
73 How to deal with emotional pain
74 How to positive express your emotions
75 How to get negative emotions out of you in positive ways
76 Examples of turning negative thoughts into positive ones
77 Redirection and reframe negative thoughts
78 Healthy habits
79 How to eliminate toxic influences and people out of your life
80 How to keep up with positive changes in life
81 Signs of a healthy relationship
82 How to maintain mutual support in relationships
83 What to do when jealousy gets in the way of your relationship
84 How to communicate effectively in a relationship
85 How to stay calm during escalations in conflict
86 How to take a positive timeout during conflicts
87 Success with a timeout in conflict
88 How to know if you are with the right partner
89 How to fix a broken relationship
90 Healing from broken trust
91 What to do when your partner annoys you
92 How to stop repeating old patterns with your partner
93 How to effectively communicate in a relationship
94 What to do when a partner is sneaky and you don’t trust them
95 What to do when your partner is dismissing your feelings and gaslighting you
96 What to do when your partner promises to change
97 What to do when you have fallen out of love
98 What to do to stay in love
99 What to do when you and your partner do not like the same things
100 How to focus on solutions in relationship rebuilding
101 How to make a decision around whether to stay in a job
102 What to do when you don’t like your job
103 How to establish personal priorities
104 How to deal with workplace conflicts and work conflicts
105 How to deal with a toxic boss
106 How to manage overwhelm
107 100 Self-care strategies
108 Activities and ways to settle your nervous system
109 How to deal with work stress
110 How to explore other careers
111 How to network with other professionals
112 How to build a social support network
113 How to do a vision-planning and a vision board moving forward
114 How to organize your outside moving forward and calm your inside self
115 How to find peace by helping others
116 How to engage in spirituality
117 Accelerating a nervous system reset
118 How to make good decisions
119 How to stop emotionally eating
120 How to mange overuse of technology
121 How to manage frustrating times
122 Staying on track with healthy priorities
2H Relationship Test ($15)
Is your relationship healthy or a hot mess? Consider the 2 H test and learn from the resources below whether to make your relationship even more healthy or to declare it a hot mess and build yourself back up to move forward in life.
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*Three supporting videos and 50 Healthy how to lists to rebuild plus Hot mess how to lists to move on if the relationship is unhealthy.
*H: Healthy relationship growing
*HM: Healing hot mess dynamics & moving on
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Contents:
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Short Video #1: 2 H Test for a relationship
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Short Video #2: Healthy communication
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Short Video #3: When to declare your relationship a hot mess.
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H1: Signs of a healthy relationship
H2: How to maintain mutual support in a relationship
H3: How to communicate effectively in a relationship
H4:How to stay calm during escalations in relationships
H5: Looking at problems from different perspectives
H6: How to take a positive timeout during conflict
H7: Success with a timeout in conflict
H8: How to respond and not react
H9: How to practice forgiveness
H10: How to heal from betrayal
H11: How to deal with change
H12: How to lean into problems not yet resolved
H13: How to break down problems and resolve them
H14: How to make gains moving forward
H15: How to deal with emotional pain
H16: How to positively express your emotions
H17: How to get negative emotions out of you in positive ways
H18: Examples of turning negative thoughts into positive thoughts
H19: *Level 1 and 2 communication
H20: *Holding space
HM1: How to know if you are with the right partner?
HM2: How to fix a broken relationship
HM3: Healing from broken trust
HM4: What to do when your partner annoys you
HM5: How to stop repeating old patterns with your partner
HM6: What to do when a partner is really sneaky and you don't trust them
HM7: What to do when your partner is dismissing your feelings & gaslighting
HM8: What to do when your partner promises to change
HM9: How to know if you are in love?
HM10: How to decide if you should stay in a relationship?
HM11: How to know if your partner is right for you?
HM12: What to do when you have fallen out of love
HM13: What to do to stay in love
HM14: What to do when your partner does not like the same things
HM15: How to focus on solutions in relationship rebuilding
HM16: How to make good decisions
HM17: How to eliminate toxic influences and people out of your life
HM18: How to deal with frustration
HM19: How to deal with sadness
HM20: How to deal with loneliness
HM21: What to do when you feel defeated?
HM22: How to change your life for the better
HM23: How to restart again with personal growth
HM24: How to determine core values
HM25: Examples of core values
HM26: How to create a new start in life
HM27: How to reset
HM28: Motivational ways to keep on going
HM29: How to maintain a positive mindset
HM30: How to have a higher quality of life
The Journey From Narcissistic Heartbreak to New Beginnings
Are you recovering from a relationship with a narcissistic person who has those traits of selfishness, gaslighting, making you feel worthless, having no empathy & more? Learn how to heal from the damage and do the work so that you end this pattern as well as minimize possibilities of future narcissistic people entering your relationships. Find freedom, healing and happiness as you get yourself back again to your full confidence with these strategies and skills.*Includes 17 videos and 100 how-to strategy checklists.
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Contents:
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Stage One: Identifying Emotional Blindspots & Vulnerability Points
1) Short Video: The pattern of earning love
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2) Short Vide: The "It must Be Me" Syndrome
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3) Short Video: Gaslighting of Yourself
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4) Short Video: The M.O. of the Narcissist
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5) Short Video: Making You Okay So I Can Okay
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6) Short Video: Fears of Abandonment
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7) Short Video: Boundaries & Boundary Violations
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8) Short Video: Healthy Emotional Detachment
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9) Short Video: Untangling my issues from others
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10) Short Video: Establish a Core Self free from Manipulation
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11) Short Video: Self-care and the contract to myself
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12) Short Video: What is self-love?
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13) Short Video: Not allowing poor treatment from other people
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14) Short Video: Knowing that people meet us in the value we set for ourselves
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Stage II: Healing from Heartbreak
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15)Short Video: Dealing with memories
16) Short Video: Falling in love with people's potential
17)Short Video: Getting out of toxicity
18) The Hope Cycle
19) Determining Your Own Value
20) Finding peace inside of yourself
21) Managing fears of the future
22) Emotional patterns in relationships
23) Your ideal relationship
24) Deal Breakers
25) Loving in a healthy way
26) Positive self-care
27) What are positive affirmations and how to use them
28) How to calm your mind and practice meditation
29) How to deal with life challenges
30) How to learn from mistakes
31) How to claim small wins in personal growth
32) How to stay motivated
33) How to do journal reflections
34) Sample prompts for journal reflections
35) How to get out of negative rut thinking
36) How to stay positive
37) How to deal with stressors you cannot control
38) How to know if you are making good decisions
39) How to be flexible around problem-solving and stress
40) How to stay out of drama and drama people
41) How to set boundaries
42) How to deal with someone who disrespects you
43) What to do when stress is troubling you
44) 100 ways to reduce stress
45) Ways to practice gratitude
46) How to have satisfying relationships with others
47) Strategies for optimal mental health
48) What to do when someone is gossiping behind your back
49) How to manage anger
50) How to deal with frustration
51) How to deal with sadness
52) How to deal with loneliness
53) What to do when you feel defeated
54) What to do when you are losing faith that things will get better
55) How to get motivation to complete goals
56) How to get more energy
57) How to make decisions
58) How to sort out future goals
59) How to know if you are in love
60) How to decide if you should stay in a relationship
61) How to know if your partner is right for you
62) How to start a new relationship
63) How to know if you can trust people
64) How to restart again with personal growth
65)How to determine core values
66)Examples of core values
67) How to create a new start in life
68) How to reset
69) Motivational ways to keep on going
70) How to maintain a positive mindset
71) How to focus on the learning lessons that life gives you
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Stage III: How to start getting yourself back
72) How to find purpose and meaning
73) How to start a new direction in relationships
74) How to start over in life
75) How to practice self-forgiveness
76) How to heal form betrayal
77) How to deal with change
78) How to lean into problems not yet resolved
79) How to break down problems and resolve them
80) How to make gains moving forward
81) How to deal with emotional pain
82) How to positively express your emotions
83) How to get negative emotions out of you in positive ways
84) Examples of turning negative thoughts into positive ones
85) Redirection and reframe negative thoughts
86) Healthy habits
87) How to eliminate toxic influences and people out of your life
88) How to keep up with positive changes in life
89) Signs of a healthy relationship
90) How to maintain mutual support in relationships
91) What to do when jealousy gets in the way of your relationship
92) How to communicate effectively in a relationship
93) How to stay calm during escalations in conflict
94) How to take a positive timeout during conflicts
95) Success with a timeout in conflict
96) How to know if you are with the right partner
97)Healing from broken trust
98)How to make good decisions
99) How to manage frustrating times
100) Staying on track with healthy priorities